So there is this couple that I really don't like.  J used to work with them years ago and they have kept in touch.  I'm not really that "connected" to them.  I know this couple through J.  We've hung out at times, etc, but that's about it.
  Anyway, I could go into a long explanation of why and what happened to make me not care to be around them, but I summarize it as best as I can.  They are both flaky and rarely follow through with things.  We set up "couple dates" and they back out or they set up the dates and then forget!  As a "planner", that doesn't go over well with me.  The also over exaggerate things!  The gusto with which they use to describe people and situations is more over the top than a 4 years olds imagination!  That also doesn't help me tolerate them.  You can only take 1/4 of what they say as a glimpse of truth.  Everything else is bullshit.
  Fast forward to Thursday night when they call and say they are having a joint birthday party and would like us to come.  I prepare myself for a night of having to put on a good face but thankful that K will be with us and I can "hide" with him. Get to today and their party is at 7:30 PM - um yeah that won't work because K is in bed at that time.  J seemed a little bummed.  I immediately thought how nice it was that I didn't have to fake it.  Of course, then I got back into the "good wife" mode and realized that we both didn't have to stay home.  K would be asleep and that would require only one of us to be at home.  I told J this and how I wouldn't mind staying home.  He's better friends with them anyway and I couldn't give a f*** what they do as long as I don't have to be there for it.
  Needless to say, J was pleased with this arrangement.  I was pleased.  We were one very pleased family!  Sweeeeeeeet!  | 
1 comments:
lol...we had a rather similar weekend!
is it funny to you that you've reached a place in life where the exciting thing to do on a saturday night is stay home - even by yourself - rather than put yourself through the irritation of faking it with people you don't really like?
for me, it's a big change...and i like it. :)
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